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This week, I'd like to follow up on Michael's post about the ways that our parents' attitudes shape our political ideals.
A recent study (Fraley, Griffin, Belsky & Roisman, 2012) has found that parents who tend to believe in authoritarian parenting raise kids more likely to become conservative. Those that have egalitarian parenting attitudes tend to have kids who become liberal.
As you fly home and think about your parents' strict or relaxed styles, I'd like to ask how it is that parents help shape our core values.
As you fly home and think about your parents' strict or relaxed styles, I'd like to ask how it is that parents help shape our core values.
How do our parents shape us?
Family is a metaphor for government.
It is clear that parents instill moral values in their kids in many ways - both implicit and explicit. They serve as examples, teach us how to treat others, tell stories about their own lives, select books and fables with important moral lessons, and talk to us about important values. However, several theories in political psychology suggest that how they discipline us also plays a big role in the equation.
Family is a metaphor for government.
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One possibility is that our relationship with our parents forms a sort of blueprint in our minds of what the relationship between citizens and government should be.
Linguistic professor George Lakoff has long argued that we use the metaphor of family when thinking about government and making political decisions such as whether to punish or rehabilitate criminals, how much to provide for the needy, and which regulations of our personal lives are necessary for a smooth society (Lackoff, 1996). In these metaphors parents stand in for government and children stand in for citizens. Liberals and conservatives may have different family models in mind when thinking about the government. Lakoff argues that conservatives subscribe to a "strict father model" that is, in many ways, similar to authoritarian parenting. Children (citizens) are considered inherently unruly and corrupt. It is up to strict fathers (government) to discipline them by teaching them self-reliance, setting up rigid rules about appropriate behavior, and punishing them when they transgress. Liberals, on the other hand, think of children (citizens) as essentially good and that the role of parents (government) is to protect them from dangerous things (pollution, poverty, etc), while letting them explore and learn about the world in rather uninhibited ways. Lakoff doesn't necessarily think that the way our families worked actually influences our view of government and politics. Rather, he suggests that our internal schema of family (whether guided by childhood or formed independently of our real experience) matches closely to how we think society should be structured.
Parenting shapes personality.
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Unexplored questions.
It is interesting and important for both researchers and the rest of the public to consider these questions. Their answers may help us understand ourselves better, shape us into more mindful parents, and create a dialogue with our own caregivers.
This research also brings up one important issue that may be on many of our minds - how do we explain families in which children grow up to be diametrically opposed to their parents' political views? Ponder this as you chew your turkey and listen to why your dad voted for "that other guy" earlier this month.
What are your thoughts on the relationship between how you were parented and your political views now.
It is interesting and important for both researchers and the rest of the public to consider these questions. Their answers may help us understand ourselves better, shape us into more mindful parents, and create a dialogue with our own caregivers.
This research also brings up one important issue that may be on many of our minds - how do we explain families in which children grow up to be diametrically opposed to their parents' political views? Ponder this as you chew your turkey and listen to why your dad voted for "that other guy" earlier this month.
What are your thoughts on the relationship between how you were parented and your political views now.
Carney, D., Jost, J., Gosling, S., & Potter, J. (2008). The Secret Lives of Liberals and Conservatives: Personality Profiles, Interaction Styles, and the Things They Leave Behind Political Psychology, 29 (6), 807-840 DOI: 10.1111/j.1467-9221.2008.00668.x
Oxley, D., Smith, K., Alford, J., Hibbing, M., Miller, J., Scalora, M., Hatemi, P., & Hibbing, J. (2008). Political Attitudes Vary with Physiological Traits Science, 321 (5896), 1667-1670 DOI: 10.1126/science.1157627
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