Monday, April 16, 2012

Call Me Crazy: The Subtle Power of Gaslighting

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Now and then I think of all the times you screwed me over, but had me believing it was always something that I'd done, sings Kimbra in Gotye's "Somebody that I used to know." In psychology, this phenomenon is called "gaslighting," a term that has its origins in a 1938 play (and a 1940 film) called Gas Light, where a man leads his wife to believe that she is insane in order to steal from her. When she notices strange events, such as the gas light dimming that occurs when he turns on the lights in the attic to search for her collection of jewels, he tells her it's just her imagination. His goal is to remove her credibility so that her complaints can be attributed to her psychosis, rather than to his misdeeds. Gaslighting is now used to refer to any attempt to make another person doubt their sense of reality.

Gotye and Kimbra
A classic example of psychological gaslighting is the following: Spouse A has an extramarital affair and tries to cover it up. Spouse B finds a suspicious text message in A's phone and expresses concern to A. A then accuses B of being paranoid, and this pattern repeats every time B raises concerns. Eventually B begins to question his or her own perceptions.

Gaslighting may also occur at the hands of those who have a vested interest in protecting potential offenders, or protecting themselves from acknowledging a disturbing reality. For example, CNN recently reported that a number of women in the U.S. military were diagnosed with personality disorders and discharged when they came forward with allegations of sexual assault. Veterans advocate Anu Bhagwati told CNN, "It's extremely convenient to slap a false diagnosis on a young woman... and then just get rid of them so you don't have to deal with that problem in your unit." Unfortunately, this "blame the victim" mentality compounds the trauma of assault, making victims feel even more alone and ashamed. It is important to note that this problem is not specific to the military (nor is it the experience of every woman in the military)–it can happen in a range of contexts.

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You may also recognize instances of gaslighting in your everyday life. For example, perhaps you went into a conversation prepared to constructively express your dissatisfaction with someone's behavior, and then found yourself apologizing. Or perhaps you took on the gaslighter role when you wanted to avoid owning up to a mistake. It's also possible that what appears to be gaslighting could simply represent different perceptions of the same reality, neither one being more objectively true (see Amie's Two Ways to Right). But even seemingly benign forms of gaslighting can have adverse consequences for mental health and should be taken seriously.

According to Robin Stern, author of The Gaslight Effect, tell-tale signs that you might be a victim of gaslighting include constantly second-guessing yourself, having trouble making decisions, frequently asking yourself, "Am I too sensitive?," and making excuses for a partner's behaviors to family of friends. If this sounds like you, it may be helpful to seek professional support. Gaslighting is powerful, and overcoming it is not easy to do alone.

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Gass, G., & Nichols, W. (1988). Gaslighting: A marital syndrome Contemporary Family Therapy, 10 (1), 3-16 DOI: 10.1007/BF00922429

87 comments:

  1. It really can be hard to spot gas lighting. I have experienced that shit in a professional context, and it is both incredibly confusing and very painful. It took changing companies plus a couple of years perspective before it was finally clear to me, what had been obvious to my friends and family all along.

    Thanks for writing about this. It is somehow nice to know this sort of behavior has a name.

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    1. Thanks for your comment, Anonymous. I'm sorry to hear that you experienced this treatment at work. As you said, it can be hard both to recognize and to speak out against, especially in a context where one's job/career is at stake and there is a power differential. I hope that things are better for you now!

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    2. I just lost my man about three months ago though he is back again full of love and passion with the help of great man Dr oshogum. i norah warland from norway, have been into relationship with daniel moork since i was 22 years old and i am 28 now. i so much love him but i could not show the love, it was very deficult for me to prove my realness to him because i thought proving my love to him might make him look down on me and go after other girls. for over six years dan have give me all that i ask of him. i was always trenthened him with break up each time i want to see his level of love for me because i was told if i threntened him, he will propose to me and then will get married to him before i can show my love despite his complains of him not sure of my love i was respond to him with negative words. though i was suspecting he have another girl in his life, i did not border to ask him about that because i was so sure of his love despite my attitude. on the 8th of september a day to my birthday he came and gave me so many lovely gift like never before claiming to wish me a happy birthday in advance with his words and behaviour i expected him to propose to me on my birthday night then i will also tell him of my pregnacy for him. i wait for him on my birthday he did not show up not even a call, i tried his number and it was not going through i refuse to go check on him because the anger in me six days later i went to his house and i found nothing not even a sign of my dan once live there. i was disappointed, faustrated, confuse with so many thought on my mind like hang my self if i did not see him again because i can not my parent about the pregnancy when the man responsible for it had disappear. our religion it's against that, my family will be disappointed in me, i have brought them shame. i look for dan every where till i could chart with him on social network, he warned me never to desturb him again because he already had find another girl that he want to live his life with, after a while he block me from all access then i could not tell him of my pregnancy for him. so, i needed a help from all coners of life, i decide to check google my self or read some write up on site on how to coup with my pain because i could not tell any body about it not even my friends were aware of my pregnancy. i keep reading to cancel my self till i find how Dr OSHOGUM help so many persons from different walls of life with their testimonies. then i decide to also contact him with oshogumspelltemple@live.com. Because i do not know much about contacting a spell caster, i was not sure he can bring my Dan back but i decide to give him a try though his requirement was another problem i meet with a friend for help because i could not the items that he needed i have to plead with dr oshogum to help me get the items because really need my man back to take away my shame. just two days after i send him the requirement Daniel call me, pleade for forgiveness. just yeterday he propose to me and i am so happy. you can also contact him with OSHOGUMSPELLTEMPLE@LIVE.COM

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  2. This is Anonymous #2. Thank you. I enjoyed this post. Something that was illuminating for me (no pun intended) in this situation was realizing that the person doing the gas-lighting may not be self-aware. A year after ending a relationship thus plagued, I was visited by my ex-boyfriend, who praised enthusiastically my "newfound" decision-making skills. He seemed honestly not to realize that it was his constant critiqueing that had had me second-guessing my every move.

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    1. Thanks for your comment, Anonymous #2. That's a good point that people may be unaware of the effect their behavior has on others. They might even think they are being helpful, as in the case of constant criticism, when in reality they are undermining a person's confidence. A lack of self-awareness doesn't excuse the behavior, of course, but it does seem important to consider the perspective of the gaslighter, as you have.

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  3. I enjoyed this article immensely. I have recently been the victim of gaslighting and it feels incredibly horrible. I started seeing this guy who I thought was amazing. We never had arguments or fights when we spent time together, in fact it was always nothing but pleasant experiances. One day out no where he started treating me differently. Not texting me, outright ignoring me or responding to my messages with short, cold, distant replies. I tried to talk to him about it multiple times. And ask if there was something I did wrong and he would just act like nothing was wrong or avoid the conversation all together while getting extremely defensive and actin like I was over reacting and crazy. Finally when I tried to tell him that I'm just trying to understand the change and why he is treating me differently, he started attacking me and just saying things like he was over my blind sided messages and that my life is filled with some sort of drama one way or another. I kept apologizing and saying over and over again I was just trying to understand. It was all extremely hurtful. I've never experianced this before, so I did start to question myself and think maybe I was over reacting and instead of asking questions I should have kept my mouth shut and just ignored it. But I'm a fixer, and I hate misunderstandings so I try my best to work things out and keep people happy. His reactions to that really made me feel like maybe I was overreacting and just shouldn't have said anything. And I shouldn't have tried to explain how I felt. But then I realized, that communication is so important and no one should feel afraid to talk about anything or to ask questions out of fear of being labeled as dramatic and crazy. I am one of the most laid back, none dramatic person. I know I'm definitly not crazy. No one has ever felt that way about me. In fact all of my friends consider me the strong one who they rely on for advice and help because I do listen and I try to solve problems and work things out to keep healthy relationships. Unfortunately in this situation I was made to feel crazy and dramatic. The worst feeling in the world is being made out to be something you aren't. :(

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    1. I'm very sorry that you went through this experience - it sounds like a classic case of gaslighting, where your partner wanted to avoid dealing with his own issues so he made the problem about you. It's great that you were able to draw on other relationships and your inner convictions to remind you that your behavior was not crazy or dramatic. It's very disorienting and painful to feel like your sense of reality - and your sense of who you are - is so out of tune with someone else's, especially someone you care about.

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    2. I have a similar situation with a man I'm in a committed relationship with. The gaslighting started about a month ago out of nowhere. As an example he told me the reason we couldn't spend the night together last Saturday was that he had people coming over to his house early the next day to do some work for him. A few days later I asked about the work and he told me about all that was done. Just today he denied that they had been there and that I was imagining things and "always" got confused about time. To make matters worse, he is an alcoholic. He is also trolling dating sites. I am currently in therapy trying to get the strength to get away form this abusive narcissistic jerk. This hurts deeply and has literally turned my world upside down.

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    3. I was in a situation that was quiet the same, I learned that no matter how much I explained myself and told my feelings it didn't matter everything always ended up being my fault. His famous words were always "you don't understand" right I don't understand why your sneaking off talking to another girl. His excuse is he was doing what was needed to keep us safe. It makes me hate myself for ever trying.

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  4. I'm a current victim of gaslighting . its ruined my life i think i'll have to move countries:(.they won't ever stop. it's hard to remember that you're the one being manipulated.

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    1. I can so relate. I am somewhat a survivor of gaslighting. I suggest if anyone believes they are a victim RUN.... I had no idea till I was out of the relationship that I was abused. My ex ruined me. financially.. MENTALLY.. He came home one day and grabbed my sleeping pills and said I was gonna kill myself. he called police that false phone call ruined me with the police. EVERYONE STILL THINKS I AM CRAXY. I left my abuser Nov 2011. I would like to say I am a survivor but as of today Feb 2013 he stalks me. He would break into my home and leave t shirts. move things. hide things. I have called the police on several occasions.. They think I am crazy. How do u explain to cops or anyone that I left my wallet on the counter when I got home my wallet was STILL ON THE COUNTER BUT MOVED. Can u say I am labled CRAZY. I lost my friends. my family my credabilty my child for a couple months. she wasnt safe. I lost my job do to him so I am now broke w no health insurance. He robbed me blind when he left but for me... I was THANKFUL HE WAS GONE. He calls from a private number and harrasses me and tells the cops that I am crazy.. I ran a crisis line for Child Protection and Mental Health suicide line. I have never had a bad reputation until I was 39. Trust me I am very smart and crazy fun but not even close to mental. I worked w the police and now they scare me. I have been threatened to be put on 5150's for calling the police and TRYING TO GETHELP My abuse was all psychological until May 2012. I have moved and he finds me. I have had 6 or 7 phones in the last year but he gets my nimber. I. now am dependent on a man. I met my current love and had him move in ASAP. This is not my character but I am so tired of being scared. In May my apt door was kicked in and the only TV I had left from my ex was stolen.. He bought it. Ha cops said it. was random. I HAD $1000.00 sitting in a purse on the floor. Random attacks thieves would have gone thru my purse and also stoen my blue ray ..video camera sterio.. May started physical attacks. every month I get hit. my door has been kicked in 3 times. I have been beaten up by females who say leave him alone. My car was beaten in window bashed sugar in my gas tank.. and that is a tiny bit. I did not file for A restraining order while I was psychologically being abused but now w all the physical attacks I have. he got a lawyer and I was told if I dont drop it I will be destroyed on the stand as a crazy person. Honestly that scares me. I have lost so much and it is such a dark place that I was in mentally. I have court in April. He managed to bring me back to the dark world. REMBER I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP NOW W A WONDERFUL MAN But I still cant get rid of this sociopath. besides losing my things I lost my morals my standards and my self respect. I am not a whore but when I was single I had men comming and going. Why? Because that was the only time I felt safe. That is the worst to lose is urself. I am damaged. I will someday rise above. but please IF U QUESTION URSELF RUN FAST. DONT LOSE EVERYRHING..

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  5. I have currently broken things off with my boyfriend of over a year. I have felt lost and confused on the whole relationship. I started doing some research and came across gaslighting and it amazes me that is exactly what he was doing. It was constant manipulation and putting things on me that he did. I feel like it has ruined my life even though I know with therapy and time it will get better. But this is not how I wanted things to turn out and I think it unfair that I have to go through this because they wanted to hide who they really were and what he was really doing. Its the worse feeling ever.

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  6. I was a victim of gaslighting by my best friend. I didn't fully understand what was going on until I escorted her out of my life (the hard way).
    I did realize she was playing mind games to make me feel fat, ugly, and a bad mom/wife. I thought it was just her nature.. I tried to ignore it, because she would just show up uninvited, and my Hubby would always defend her when I was angry with her, and tell me to stop looking at the little things, because she did a lot to "help me out" too. Though anything she did to "help" was never helping at all. She would clean my floor, and leave chemicals on floor for my 1 year old to grab, or leave the vacuum out then freak out on him for touching it.. Then I'd need to deal with a cranky toddler for the rest of the day.. She was constantly telling me I wasn't hard enough on him, and he walked all over me. Telling everyone who made nice comments about him that he was a "bad boy" and not to let his cute looks fool them.. When people would make nice comments on how good he is at sharing, she would go on about how that was because they didn't know him.. Little things to make me feel like a horrible mom.. It would get me so stressed I'd frequently find myself yelling at him, thinking that I needed to have better control over him.. She encouraged it..
    It goes deeper.. What I didn't notice, was that she was playing my husband against me as well.. I am not exactly sure how, as I don't know what shed said about me behind my back.. But she basically turned us against one another.. Had him convinced I was a bitch, a gold digger, that I was trying to turn our son against him, had us convinced we didn't love each other any more.. That I was trying to take our son away from him.A bunch of other stuff.. We started having really huge fights..
    All this happened over a period of several years.
    Then, inevitably I found some texts she had sent my husband, saying she wanted to get rid of me, and have sex with him.. I went over to her house, and let her know she wasn't allowed back in our lives, then told the whole town what shed done. So all these games to try and get rid of me, because she wanted my husband.

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    2. I hope you left him and moved by now! Things can only get worse.

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  7. Thanks for this article. A woman at work is doing this, I think to me, and it makes me feel (and look) crazy when I try to defend myself. She's worked there longer, and she constantly berates me on my performance even though I haven only worked there 2 months. Then when I tell my boss that she is doing it, se tries to say she wasn't yelling, wasn't being mean, didn't do it in public, etc, which she definitely has. I've had to basically try to avoid situations where I have to talk to her for longer than a sentence.

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    1. Years ago, I had a boss who did this stuff. It's rough at work, because you have to line up another job before walking away......I found it very hard to keep quiet and bide my time, but I managed...you will, too!!! Good luck.

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  8. One of the hardest things to deal with, for me, has been thinking I've been gaslighted (gaslit?) but not being sure about it. That my relationship has had a lot of problems is something I know, but every time I try to talk to my partner about their share of our dynamic I end up feeling like it's all on me - and the trouble is that I can't be sure it isn't (even when therapists are telling me quite baldly that I'm not the only one who's had an effect on our relationship).

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    1. This!!! Being bipolar I'm always told I'm hallucinating, just being paranoid, that's it's my shit. I've felt the suspicion, the phone bill, the blatant denials, the anger to push me away. Significant other has been banned from a facility we use, the operator told me why and significant other says they are lying and I just want it to be true. I never asked, they volunteered. Witnessed having sex and asked to leave. Why would they tell me that, why would they never allow them in their facility again. Now all the times I felt it in my gut, all the times I suspected and asked and was made to feel I was just crazy. I'm in living he'll with so many conflicted feelings.

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  9. I was involved with a man who tried this. I am a "lone wolf" personality so I never doubted myself - I was on to him right away. I kept giving him rope and watching him hang himself. The only thing disturbing to me about it is that anyone would be so low as to behave in this manner. After we broke up, he charmed someone else immediately, and moved in with her after only seeing her a few weeks (I never let him move in here!)
    I feel sorry for her...I know how things will go.

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  10. My ex has symptoms resembling Borderline Personality Disorder (hasn't been officially diagnosed) and she, like other borderlines, was a master of gaslighting. She was abusive towards me for our entire 3 year relationship, but would apologize profusely after outbursts and promise it would always change. Asking for accountability now that we're broken up is next to impossible with someone who so adamantly believes their own gaslighting lies. She will contort memories that I remember distinctly and argue that I was the one who caused the fight, or I'm the one who can't communicate. Every civil discussion that I started to respectfully discuss a concern, she turned into a circus by yelling, storming out, claiming my questions are jabs are body image/family/personality (things that were her own insecurities). It took me a long time to realize that I wasn't just "oversensitive" or "unfairly assuming that she will get angry and therefore causing her anger" and that she is the one causing this pattern and was truly unable to see this unhealthy behaviour. It's painful and frustrating to think that she stills thinks of me as the problem, but you have to let it go with people like this and know that you, your family and friends, (and probably their family, friends and even coworkers too!) know the truth. They will repeat this with others, and maybe one day they will learn.

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  11. It occurs to me that this gas-lighting behavior is part and parcel of dealing with narcissistic sociopaths. I am getting divorced from my husband of three years (lived together for over five years) after he dumped me out of the blue for some unemployed stupid skank who is using him as her meal ticket. Before I found out he was cheating on me he tried to make it seem like we needed to "break up" because "counseling wasn't working." We had gone to only 3 counseling sessions, which he finally agreed to when I told him I could not on unless we got help (his anger issues had gotten out of control). When I found out he was cheating on me he tried to deny it; then decided to try and blame me for his decision to leave me and ie to me. What a complete jerk. Problem with such people is they tend to prey on smart but loyal people; smart because what fun is it to manipulate someone stupid? Loyal because people who are loyal and trusting are less likely to believe someone could betray them so utterly... watch out for these sociopaths! They are everywhere!

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    1. They ARE everywhere. I am currently experiencing this with my live-in boyfriend...You described him perfectly. I agree with the comment above yours also.. it is very hard to think they still believe it's not them. This is the hardest thing I have ever experienced. My boyfriend is 45 and I don't think he will ever change his behavior. It is a mind-f*ck. I've never felt so lost and low. The criticism of everything about me is endless (from my clothes to my friends, to my eating habits, to my intelligence... apparently I don't read history books everyday). I sometimes feel he has ruined me. He is narcissistic and actually in a position of power work-wise...so it just is awful....I can't even put into words how confusing he is.

      Currently he wants to break up with me I feel! I've forgiven so many times because I understand the sickness and I always try to see the good...So when I try to speak calmly about his feelings that he has expressed about ending things ... he just shouts "I didn't say that... you did. I'm not your parent.. you decided it's over." He was even on a dating website while we were seriously together. I'm pretty sure it's called singles.com because it is for SINGLES. He also has major validation issues. All my family and friends hate him and don't understand how he scored me. This is the first time Im writing this all out and putting it all together. I fell for his compulsive lies.

      So now... he makes it seem that I am the one who is ending things.
      He always says I make things about me... because he is selfish and doesn't want to consider me or the relationship. He was seeking women outside he relationship.. and tells me Im crazy and that he shouldn't have to stop.

      When I was very sick one night, he wouldn't help... or check in on me... He said it was all in my mind.

      He is a MASTER manipulator. The examples are endless. He is charmer. He will make everyone believe him and even adore him. He charmed me and lied to me to get me. He now is lying and cheating in his career.. stealing other peoples ideas and he can get the credit. It works so well for him with work.. he does it in every aspect of his life. No one knows the real him. Maybe his countless exes know the truth... and they got out. He even has his friends fooled. He can be a charmer, but he is also very aggressive and can be violent. I'm trying to get through the fog.

      These blogs are very helpful. I'm glad they exist. It's good to know it's not all in my head.









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  12. Men can be the victims of gaslighting as well. My soon-to-be ex-wife did this for the past two years. She reconnected with her high school boyfriend and soon the mysterious activity started. I was told about a lunch with him "to catch up" and a week later a quick drink on the way home to celebrate the New Year. She got home three hours after she called to say she was leaving the bar (the bar is 3 blocks from his townhouse and 15 minutes from our house). I was understandably worried and called/texted several times receiving no reply until she got home and started screaming at me for checking up with her and embarrassing her in front of (boyfriend name goes here). I asked what happened and was told to mind my own business and stop trying to control her (huh?). A few weeks later, she received a text that came through around midnight while she was sleeping upstairs. Being very unusual, I opened it to see if it was an emergency: "Out drinking with (mutual friend name). Thinking of you. Sweet dreams. Love (Insert his name here) XOXO" . I confronted her the next morning and was told that I "was sitting around making things up in my head, it was obviously a drunk text" and "I hate you for snooping, a***hole. I want a divorce because I can't trust you to stop snooping". A couple weeks later, I started digging around cell phone records and found phone calls every single weekday to each other for the entire ride home from work for almost three months (and they were still continuing) over 400 text messages in the most recent three week period (I stopped counting) and when I confronted my wife again, I got in trouble for "snooping". No apology, no explanation, just the silent treatment for a few days before she started acting as if nothing ever happened. Still more strange behavior (last minute dinners and drinks with girlfriends and/or coworkers), and when confronted, she told me that I had a wild imagination and needed to see a shrink. After two years of this and a deteriorating relationship, she announced she was leaving me for (insert high school boyfriend here) and I was right all along about the affair. Her reason for cheating on me? "I got sick of you snooping, so I decided to give you something to find. You have nobody to blame but yourself". Typical gaslighting - blame someone else for your poor choices. My advice - don't let your spouse tell you you're crazy...if it looks wrong, it is wrong. One last thing - last night she was complaining to me that the boyfriend stopped answering her emails, texts and phone calls. She wanted to know what I did to him to keep him away from her (he's not worth my time, he can have her). I think she's getting exactly what she deserves...and so do our three kids who all chose to live with me.

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    1. Thank you for sharing this. My live in boyfriend I wrote about above also gets mad calling me crazy for snooping when I found tons of evidence of other women. He also tells me I need a therapist... UM IT'S HIM... but actually now because of him I actually do to sort his bs out. It is sickening. I've never felt alone until I was with him...if that makes sense.

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  13. I'm a little bit concerned that you have used a rather wide-ranging definition of "gas-lighting" that could be used to cover more-or-less every circumstance where a negative comment is made about someone else. In so doing you are, by your own rather broad definition "gaslighting"!

    My understanding is that the term refers to a long continuous process where a person has deliberately tried to give the victim the impression that he or she is mad or somehow mentally unstable, as part of a sociopathic behaviour. This is how it is shown in the film.

    I think if a man shouts "You're out of your head woman!" it is usually common-or-garden verbal abuse and gaslighting doesn't really come into it. If the woman were to respond to by accussing her generally well behaved husband of "gaslighting" without foundation then in fact she is the one that is gaslighting.

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    1. I take it to mean just any behavior that consistently makes the other person feel emotionally unstable, anxious, second guessing their own memory, judgment, and emotional health, so that they slowly loose faith and confidence in themselves. This is what has happened to me, but it is only an 18 month relationship, so I may be able to get out with my sanity still intact, but it is VERY painful, and I am absolutely heart-broken to realize that this person I love has been doing this to me.

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  14. Part I

    WOW! Just found this link. I have a real life story that happened in 2002 that will pretty much top most of the stories found here regarding "Gas-lighting".

    Stay post !!!!!

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  15. Being a victim of gaslighting myself I can truly say it is the most painful experience I have ever had the misfortune to journey through.I still feel pain each day, I am a male btw.

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    1. I am going through it now. I am devastated. I broke up with him tonight, but he lives 5 minutes away, and emails me all the time, so I am sure he will try to get me back, only to abuse me again. I have never been so emotionally drained in my life. I feel like he stole this chunk of my life, and I feel utterly betrayed in my love for him. I trusted that he loved me, only to realize that he has been keeping me emotionally unstable and anxious all this time, second guessing my self, and I have slowly lost all faith in myself.

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  16. I think anonymous with the cheating wife experienced what has been called "switching the blame" but some people call it gaslighting. Denials etc...a lot of passive aggressive behavior can be similar to gas lighting. It really doesn't HAVE to be like in the movie. I am into polygamous relationships and I got involved with a guy who insisted he didn't want a exclusive commitment with ANYONE. But the next day after saying that ( he said that a lot) he dumped me to go into a exclusive relationship with someone. Then he said that he was honest about not wanting a commitment with me, so what did he do wrong? animal

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  17. I'm just getting in here. I am married to a Psychopath who does most of the things mentioned previously in other posts.Sometimes he will hide my keys, so I'm stuck at home or does something so the car won't start,etc. He's really getting more extreme in his illness He also takes my favorite things and moves them, breaks them, or hides them .When questioned, he becomes very angry, claiming that "he's tired of being accused...." It's amazing how he can insist that he hasn't done anything wrong.He will even do this in therapy. Thank God the therapist believes me. He's the "nice guy" and its hard to believe he would ever do these things.
    Does anyone else experience this?
    Thanks for any replies.

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    1. Hi,am wondering how long this has been going on for you.?I lived with my partener gas lighting me for over 3 years before we broke up...then it got even worse...When i used to accuse her of decieving me(normally regarding other men when we still lived together)she would always get angry and accuse me of being paranoid...such a convincing liar that I started to believe her.She stole my phone,car keys,money etc..

      Am happy to hear that your therapist believes you...the first therapist i saw told me that such things do not happen and that i was imagining them...he had me convinced for a while....good luck.John d

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  18. Wow!Thank you so much for this site and to all you brave victims...I wish that i had been aware of the term "gas lighting"when my ordeal started around 10 years ago...It is still going on and has taken over my perception of reality and although i now know that i am not"paranoid/delusional",I live a constant battle to convince myself that it is not ME who is crazy but the situation....At the worst moments i have been suicidal...At times this mental torture has left me wondering if i am even here at all,or somewhere else only imagining that i am here!!

    Gas lighting enters every day of my life since 10 years.It started with my ex,my son´s mother and then spread so that her friends/my friends and community joined in...Now Interpol are also gaslighting me.Try saying that to someone without being told that you are paranoid/crazy...My relationship with my brother has been shattered as i tried to convince him that this was really happening and failed,leaving him instead convinced that i am delusional..I find it impossible to make new real friends because i suspect that they are a "setup".There is no way that i can ever have a relationship with a woman while this continues as i cannot trust...justifiably so as in the last 7years I have been "setup" with three women(each whom i was seeing for a few months,one lived with me)who all continued this epic gas lighting plot...

    So being that my son´s mother started this sick abuse,am i crazy or sane to disbelieve her now that she claims to have stage 4 cancer???

    My personal experience of gas lighting has been compounded by my having experienced dissociation disorder..(mentally blocking out what you cannot handle which is a self protection mechanism).In my case many of those blocked out memories return,albeit out of context.
    I have been advised by the two or three old friends who believe me but are not involved to RUN/LEAVE but i have invested everything in my home here,my son lives here and frankly i am too stubborn to be pushed out...

    I have all but given up hope that this will ever stop.Sometimes i feel that the experience has made me stronger.Sometimes i feel that it is breaking me.Pulverizing my experience of reality.I live in two worlds simulteaniously...One involves self belief,the other self doubt.It´s the self doubt that makes you feel crazy.Ten years in and i have to pretend that it is not happening most of the time in order to function,be a parent,run a business.Thankfully i have recently found one friend who believes me.She told me about the term gas lighting.Just being able to tell her everything and be told that i am not crazy and these things do happen has been a lifesaver.I have spent so many years too scared to talk about this abuse for fear of more people telling me that i am crazy...mental solitary confinement and gas lighting combined is a horrific psychological torture that has shaped the last too many years of my life...

    At times when i acknowledge the extent of this abuse i want to go round to the abusers and smash everything/everyone....but that´s not really going to help anything and perhaps just what they want to get me sectioned....

    If you are being gas lit,know that it´s the self doubt that damages the most..Trust yourself...you are not alone,although i bet you feel you are!I wish you stregnth and dont let the bastards break you...

    My story is long and continues today...I intend to add it to this page soon.It would be entertaining if it was fiction..I wish it was..I know it is not .John D







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  19. My husband decided to write down a list and present it to me. On that list was a list of things that I should not be upset about. How crazy is this?

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  20. I'm going through this now. My boyfriend of 18 months has been gaslighting me. I feel completely alone, emotionally drained, and so terribly sad, and heartbroken. When he doesn't like that I've expressed the slightest bit of displeasure with something he has done or said, or how he has said it - which is often using coarse, blunt, even hurtful language - he just says that I am "mentally ill," "insane,"or even "psychotic." He has said he has bi polar disorder, and he drinks alcohol to excess every day. I do not drink or do drugs, and I do not have an emotional disorder. I am sensitive and will talk back to him when I feel he has been hurtful, which, I guess in his eyes, makes me "psychotic." I try so hard to explain to him that his words are so hurtful and inaccurate, and I try hard to help him to understand me, thinking we just have a hard time communicating - but ALL my efforts result in him making me bad, wrong, and crazy. The emotional pain of this is intense. It's like deep sorrow. All the hopes I had for the relationship taking a healthy and loving turn are now dashed, and I feel forced to give up. All my efforts to be understood by him have failed. One of the most painful aspects of this is that I know when he makes these claims that they are outrageously inaccurate, simply untrue - but I cannot seem to convince him of that. The frustration at trying to get through to him is enormous.

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    1. Trust me. He won't change, he will only get worse. Let him go. If you don't, years from now you will wish you did.

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  21. Also going with Anonymous...I'm seeing a lot of us here. I just got out of a professional situation where there was major gaslighting. I knew what I was hearing, but the lies made me question my sanity. I still have to get past it and I have some good supports. I did run. I did that on instinct. Found out the name of what it was after. I'm not sure how badly my career is affected. Really was scary.

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  22. For years my husband would say I misheard him or claim I said something I didn't. Eventually, enough times happened with witnesses and I was strong enough to realize he had the problem. We went for counseling years ago and was so charming, I might as well of not gone. (She finally saw through him and that was when he decided we were done with counseling.)
    Fast forward a lot of years. I have stage 4 breast cancer. Hubby was absolutely wonderful during chemo, a little controlling, but I needed someone to be strong for me, and he was being very compassionate and empathetic. A few weeks after my surgery he did an about face. He suddenly did not want to give any comfort or affection. Because I was honestly grieving the changes from the surgery and so weak physically, it was not hard for him to convince my surgeon I was depressed and put me on antidepressants. He manipulated the kids (grown and no longer at home) into supporting this. The antidepressants made me totally unable to function, emotionally numb, nauseated to the point of losing weight (5 pounds a week), gave me panic attacks, and made me want to die. I quit them on my own. Both church friends and my cancer support group all supported me on this.
    It's been a year since my surgery. I am fed up with being demoted from wife to cook and platonic friend. He still lives in the guest room where originally he was only going to sleep until I healed from surgery. He has told me I am absolutely not allowed to ever travel to see out of state family again (opposing my seeing them is not new, just now he is using my cancer as a reason - doctors say it's fine for me to go). He even forbade me from attending my only brother's funeral. Turned out my brother left me a substantial amount. Suddenly, the gaslighting has gone into overdrive. When our youngest is here, her dad and she repeatedly cut me out of family conversations and whether I complain or just leave the room, I am "depressed." I have no problems talking with friends or our other kids (although one told me she is getting all sorts of reports of Mom's strange behavior), but I am constantly being jumped on if I don't agree with husband or daughter 100%. Also, husband has become extremely critical, which he says he isn't, it's just my "depression." (I've counted, 6 out of the last 7 meals he said the meat was bad, to many vegetables served, too heavily seasoned, too lightly seasoned, he'd have preferred a different meat, etc. - no, not critical at all.) I have an appointment coming up soon and they have already been calling my doctor about my "depression." Partly to deal with this and partly for self-defense, I have been checking into counselors. I found out daughter and husband have too, they want to pick a counselor and I am assuming fill him/her in about my "depression." Oh, and husband or daughter try to be at all my appointments. Back during active treatment, it seemed comforting, but to continue it now seems just plain controlling. My husband now says it is because I can't "remember" things.

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  23. My mother gaslighted me as a kid and still does it to me as an adult. When I was a kid she would sometimes set up "accidents" to hurt me (sometimes very badly--car accidents where I was not buckled in "only that one time" and she would slam on the breaks for a "dog" crossing the road that was not actually there, etc.) and if I would call her on it she would say if you tell your father I am a liar he will hurt you so bad. This is only one instance--there were others. She denies anything and everything she has ever said and doesn't remember anything if it doesn't suit her reality.
    As an adult, when I moved in with my boyfriend, the 1st and one of the only times she came to our 1st apartment, I noticed the next day when I went to use a bottle of witch hazel (it's for your skin) there was no smell at all--it was water inside. For some reason, I did not suspect her of doing this, so I blamed my boyfriend. He agreed there was water in the bottle not witch hazel but denied doing it. We argued and it really made me doubt him why he was playing tricks on me. It made me get a sick feeling in my stomach. (I know now it was her that did it but thinking it was him actually changed the way I felt about him for a while.) Living with my boyfriend in our 2nd apartment I got a call one time from my previous doctor's office asking me if I was OK. I said "um yeah why are you calling". The lady said that someone saying they were me (a female) called to ask for a refill of medication (that I had never had prescribed to me) and that she personally had spoken to the woman who said she was me. She had said to the female "OK I will refill it" but then when she checked on the computer realized I was not a patient anymore and that was why she was calling me. Well, my mother was the only person other than my boyfriend who knew the name of my previous doctor. She has hid my car keys from me, I have threatened to call the cops if she did not give them back, she then did go get them where she had hid them and gave them back. Even though I saw her do this, she told me I was paranoid and even tried to have me committed to a mental hospital for being paranoid and "thinking she stole my keys" even though I saw her hide them. She told my father I was crazy and needed to be committed for paranoia. She has taken scissors and cut one of my shoes from a brand new pair of shoes before my sisters wedding that I had just gotten the night before. I could tell they were cut with scissors and noone else had access to them because it was just her and me the night before my sister's wedding before they all came to her house for pictures
    I wish I knew why she has always done this stuff to me. Everyone I tell except my boyfriend thinks I am crazy (he thinks she is a sociopath). She presents herself as a person "without sin" who would never think to harm another person. Gaslighting messes with your head in a way nothing else can. You know you're not crazy but it makes you not want to reach out for help bc the second you open your mouth people think you are crazy. I wish I could talk to a therapist but I really feel I would be disbelieved or blamed somehow.

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  24. Hi Selina

    i was in a big problem in my marital life so i read your testimony on how Priest JAYEMA help you get your husband back and i said i will give it a try and i contacted the Priest JAYEMA to help me and he promised to help me get my problem solved. now am so happy with my life because all my problems are over. Thanks to the great Priest JAYEMA for the help and Thanks to you Selina.
    You can call him with this Mobil number +2348164030263 and i promise he will not disappoint you.

    AM SO HAPPY……

    http://www.priestjayemamagictemple.blogspot.com/

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  25. My name is Mr Cardenas,my wife was having affair with a senior secretary in her office. I love this woman so much that i would not want to share her with any body. i told her to retire from the job and i would take care of all her needs but she would take it because she is been embraced by everybody in her office, this normally leads to quarrel every-time. i tried all i can to please her and she will promise to be good , some days later she will turn back to her normal way.
    i was nearly loosing out, i could not focus in my job, my whole life was full of sorrow and i was thinking i should kill the other man my self and put an end to all this until i saw a testimony from a blog on how DR EDIONWE could cast a love spell to bring lovers back no matter what is behind the disappointment. so i decided to write him via email. edionwesolutiontemple@yahoo.com and now all my wishes are exactly as i wanted. She told me everything that has happened secretly in the past and i forgave her as DR EDIONWE instructed me to and she loves me and care for me as i ever wanted. i know there are many spells that do not work but i want to assure all you out there no matter what you have been trough to have faith and believe that this is the final solution to your problem.
    Even if my job is taking most of my time, the little free time i have , i will share the good news to everyone in the world because i know that with love brings happiness and hope for a long life.

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  26. My Name is Susan williams , From United States . I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called Dr Dahiru has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost Ex husband to me with his great spell, I was married to this man called williams we were together for a long time and we loved our self's but when I was unable to give him a child for 2 years he left me and told me he can't continue anymore then I was now looking for ways to get him back until a friend of mine told me about this man and gave his contact email, then you won't believe this when I contacted this man on my problems he prepared this and bring my lost husband back, and after a month I miss my month and go for a test and the result stated am pregnant am happy today am a mother of a baby girl, thank you once again the great Dr Dahiru for what you have done for me, if you are out there passing through any of this problems listed below: (1) If you want your ex back. (2) if you always have bad dreams. (3) You want to be promoted in your office. (4) You want women/men to run after you. (5) If you want a child. (6) You want to be rich. (7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever. (8) If you need financial assistance. (9) How you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money (10) Cure for HIV - you can contact hem via: email arewaspecialisttemple@yahoo.com OR YOU CAN AS WELL EMAIL ME TO CONFIRM IT TRUE MY EMAIL susanwilliams3456@gmail.com

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  27. I am so happy to let the whole word know how this powerful spell caster saved my marriage. Everything was going down the drain as my husband can not stop cheating on me with other women. It became used to always heating on me. I tried to make him stop, but I couldn’t help the situation, the more I tried, the harder it becomes. At times we will fight and go apart for some months and we will come back again just because of our kids. One day a friend told me about this spell caster who helped her too, his name is Dr.Ekpikus, she said he uses white magic spells to solve spiritual problems. I decided to give it a try, I contacted him and he told me it will take just 2 to 3 days and I will see great changes in my husband. He actually cast a spell, believe me after 2 to 3 days of the spell, my husband was confessing different names of woman he has slept with. He begged for forgiveness and never to try it again. From that day till now, my mind is at rest. My husband dislike every other women on earth except me. And am so happy to have him for myself alone. The spell caster’s contact is Ekpikuspelltemple@live.com **or call him +2347055029151. You can contact him for any help, he is very powerful and kind

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  28. After 9 years in marriage with my hubby with 3 kids, my husband started going out with other ladies and showed me cold love, on several occasions he threatens to divorce me if I dare question him about his affair with other ladies, I was totally devastated and confused until a old friend of mine told me about a spell caster on the internet Dr. Trust who help people with the relationship and marriage problem by the powers of love spells, at first I doubted if such thing ever exists but decided to give it a try, when I contact him, he helped me cast a spell and within 24hours my husband came back to me and started apologizing, now he has stopped going out with ladies and he his with me for good and for real. Contact this great spell caster for your relationship or marriage problem at ultimatespellcast@gmail.com. Goodluck or Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com

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  29. I was crushed when my lover of three years left to be with another woman. I cried and sobbed every day,until it got so bad that I reached out to the Internet for help. And i saw a testimony of a spell caster (drstanleyspelltemple@hotmail.com) who help a girl to get her boyfriend back with a love spell and i said let me give it a try so i contact him for help and he cast a love spell for me which i use in getting my love back and now i am a happy woman. For what you have done for me, i will not stop to share your goodness to people out there for the good work you are doing. I hope God bless you as much as you have help me to get my Love back.......Whitney

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  30. I am so happy my husband was gone for over a year and with the help of Dr Ekaka spell now he is back! We just renewed our marriage vows, and are much happier than we have been in over ten years! If you are reading this and need help and are lost not knowing where to turn, call or email ekakaspelltemple@yahoo.com You will be so glad you did! He spells work so fast and he knows all about Divinity and Angels and he will even teach you all about that too !

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  31. STANLEY FROM USA CALIFORNIA

    BE CAREFUL HERE NOBODY CAN HELP YOU HERE OR EVEN SUGGEST HOW YOU CAN GET YOUR EX OR LOVE BACK,ANY TESTIMONIES OF MOST SPELL CASTER HERE MUST BE IGNORE.BECAUSE MOST OF THEM ARE SCAM I MEAN REAL SCAM WHICH I WAS A VICTIM AND I GOT RIPPED OF THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS BECAUSE I WAS SO ANXIOUS TO GET MY WIFE patience AFTER SHE LEFT ME FOR OVER 2YEARS WITH MY 6YEARS OLD SON JEFFERY,I HAVE APPLIED TO 5 DIFFERENT SPELL CASTER HERE AND ALL TO NO AVAIL THEY ALL ASK FOR SAME THING SEND YOUR NAME YOUR EX NAME ADDRESS AND PICTURE PHONE NUMBER ETC WHICH I DID OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND MOST OF THEM WERE FROM SOUTH AFRICA UNTIL I SAW THIS Email Online ABOUT DR ABACHA SPELL IN NIGERIA AND I DECIDED TO GAVE HIM A CALL.HE ASK ME FOUR THINGS MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND £500 AND SAID MY EX WILL COME BACK IN 2DAYS TIME SO I HAVE TO END THE CALL AS I HAVE PAID OVER $7000 ON SPELL CASTING AND COURIER AND NOTHING HAVE WORK FOR ME AFTER 3 DAYS I WAS THINKING ABOUT HOW MUCH I HAVE LOST SO FAR BECAUSE OF PATIENCE SO I SAID LET ME GIVE HIM A TRY SO I CALLED HIM AGAIN AND SEND MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND THE £340 BECAUSE I SWEAR IT WAS MY LAST TRY SO I WAS WAITING AS HE TOLD ME TO WAIT TILL NEXT DAY AND I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT BECAUSE I REALLY LOVE PATIENCE AND WANT HER BACK AT 9PM THAT DAY I SAW PATIENCE ONLINE ON FACE BOOK AND SHE SAID HI AT FIRST I WAS SHOCK BECAUSE SHE NEVER TALK WITH ME FOR THE PAST A YEAR AND 5 MONTH NOW I DID NOT REPLY AGAIN SHE SAID ARE YOU THERE? I QUICKLY REPLY YES AND SHE SAID CAN WE SEE TOMORROW I SAID YES AND SHE WENT OFFLINE I WAS CONFUSED I TRY TO CHAT WITH HER AGAIN BUT SHE WAS NO MORE ONLINE I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT AS I WAS WONDERING WHAT SHE IS GOING TO SAY, BY 7.AM THE NEXT MORNING SHE GAVE ME A MISS CALL I DECIDED NOT TO CALL BACK AS I WAS STILL ON SHOCK AGAIN SHE CALL AND I PICK SHE SAID CAN WE SEE AFTER WORK TODAY I SAID YES SO SHE END THE CALL IMMEDIATELY I GOT OFF WORK SHE CALL ME AND WE MEET AND NOW WE ARE BACK AGAIN I CALL DR ABACHA THE NEXT DAY THANKING HIM FOR WHAT HE HAS DONE IN FACT I STILL CALL HIM AND THANK HIM AS MY LIFE WAS NOT COMPLETE WITHOUT PATIENCE PLEASE BE CAREFUL HERE I HAVE BEEN SCAM THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS IF YOU WANT A LOVE SPELL THE CALL DR ABACHA NOW OR EMAIL HIM ON THESE EMAIL ABACHASOLUTIONTEMPLE367@GMAIL.COM

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  32. Im wondering if my ex daughter in law is doing this to my grandson. He is two. She has sought to alienate him from my son by doing away with his visitation and is teaching him his name is different than the name given him at birth. Yes of course it is without my son's permission. Any thoughts on this??

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  33. I was crushed when my lover of three years left to be with another woman. I
    cried and sobbed every day, until it got so bad that I reached out to the
    Internet for help.And i saw a testimony of a spell caster who help a girl
    called michelle and i said let me give it a try so i contact him for help
    and he cast a love spell for me which i use in getting my love back and now
    i am a happy woman.For what you have done for me,i will not stop to share
    your goodness to people out there for the good work you are doing.I hope
    God blesses you as much as you have help me to get my Love back,visit him
    on oriomonspiritualtemple@yahoo.com is the only answer to your problemS
    EMILIANO BABARAH_USA

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  34. THE GREAT POWERFUL SPELL CASTER THAT
    BRING BACK MY EX BOYFRIEND.
    I just want to say thank you Dr juju for all you have done for me.
    He is back now. That very powerful spell caster STOP THE DIVORCE – and get my ex boyfriend back. My name is Joy Anderson, from Canada. I never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went for a business summit early this year. I meant a man who's name is Dr juju love he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back one's gone,lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell for a good job or luck spell .I’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down because our relationship has been on for 3years. I really loved him, but his mother was against us and he had no good paying job. So when i met this spell caster,i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him. At first i was undecided, skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try.And in 7 days when i returned to Canada, my boyfriend(now husband) called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mother and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married. I didn't believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do. Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and my husband also got the new job and our lives became much better.in case you are in any situation you can contact Dr jujulove at his email drjujulovespellcaster_solution@yahoo.com or his personal
    cell +2347066207498
    Thank you for all your help dr jujulove i promise to share this Testimony to
    every body in the world wide.

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  35. My ex-boyfriend dumped me 9 months ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him.I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me.I was so confuse and don't know what to do,so I reach to the internet for help and I saw a testimony of how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my ex came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness.I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that,we are about to get married.once again thank you Kala spell.you are truly talented and gifted Email: onimalovespell@gmail.com is the only answer.he can be of great help and I will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man onimalovespell@gmail.com

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  36. Hello to you all on this site it brings me so much joy and happiness today so i decided to share my happiness and testimony to you all,my name is Sophia am from New York am 52 years old i married to Mr George Cranor he is north America we have 3 grown up children and grandchildren,2 years ago my husband said he needs a divorce that he is no longer interested in the marriage that was how my husband left me with the children and moved to another state with his new girlfriend, i travel to with a friend to visit his husband for Christmas celebration getting there i came across a powerful spell caster who help people to fix their broken marriage and relationship and get ex lover back,the spell caster is called DOCTOR OBALLA he is very powerful he cast a spell for me and he said to me that i should return to my country my husband is waiting for me at home,when i came back to New York i meant my husband with the children waiting for my arrival my husband apologize to me and we are happily married now am very happy i will never forget this powerful spell cater,if you also need his help contact him now with this email: oballaspelltemple@hotmail.com

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  37. The spell caster who helped me to get my lover back,(igberasespelltemple@yahoo.com) I looked so surprised,cried out loudly,wiped day and night, have sleepless night sevrally, thinking that i have lost Avila Rudy my lover, my boyfriend,my soul mate,forever after 2years of Relationship, but it all come to me as a dream that i was still able to be with him and he is with me for good, for love, for care,and i am so happy, and i thank the powerful spell caster who helped me out in getting and acheiving these great joy and happiness,Dr Igberase of igberasespelltemple@yahoo.com,indeed Dr you are powerful,although i doubted these at forst stage but you still make it real to me and i am happy today and i say thanks be to you and i promised to always share your good and how powerful you are around the world and in the internet,Dr Igberase is a good and helping spell caster who help to get Ex lover or lost Husband, if you need a spell caster that can help you with your lost lovers Kindly email Dr Igberase on his email.(igberasespelltemple@yahoo.com) thanks so much Dr for your help amd wonderful thing you have done for me,yours Daughter, Alicia Weaver From Alabama Usa

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  38. An amazing testimony on a spell caster who brought my wife back to me..
    My name is Andy Sowers,i live in Australia,and I'm happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids.A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my wife.so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce.she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she didn't love me anymore.So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again.
    So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife.So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.{tataspelltemple@gmail.com}.
    So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day.What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who didn't call me for the past seven {7}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back.So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster.
    So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website {tataspelltemple@gmail.com},if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to "bringing your ex back.
    So thanks to the tatalovespellcaster for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family once again.
    {tataspelltemple@gmail.com},
    Thanks...

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  39. Hello to every one out here, am here to shear my the unexpected miracle that has happen to me three days ago, I came across a post online talking about how she got her ex back to her with the help of the great spell caster who happens to be high Dr momodo, that he helped her though i never believe this because i was just wondering how could this be, but i gave my self hope and i contact the spell caster. this is the unbelievable that has happened to me this December I was happily married and we had three kids, we lived together as one because we both loved each other but before i knew it, my husband started acting funny and cheating on me later on, he told me that he cannot continue with me so that was how he left me and my three kids without noting but there was noting i could do to stop him or bring him back to me I work so had to pay the children's schools fee and other responsibility i did this for good five years. I cry all day and night because i don't know what else to do to have my husband back to me until this faithful day i saw the post from one miss Nicole testifying how the high priest helped her to get her ex back I just wanted to try my luck because i never believe it will work but to my greatest surprise, am singing a new song i contacted the great priest on 2nd of December and he told me not to worry because once he finish caster the spell, that i will get my husband back the unbelievable happened on Friday when i got a call and I was surprise to hear my husbands voice apologizing to me that he is so sorry for keeping alone and came back home and we are happy together again wow, i really appreciate your good work great Dr momodo, God bless you and your good work for there noting else i can say than to tell the world about you. So if any one is out here seeing this post and you have similar issue like this, worry no more and contact the only man that can help you this email: momodospelltemple@gmail.com

    My name is: Michael Redmond

    from USA.

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  40. My Names is Monique Curry ,AM from United states .i never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in June last year on a business summit i meet a man called Dr ogboni, is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my love s gone misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job i m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 4weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 3 year i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him at first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try and in 6 days when i returned to taxes my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married i didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help his email address: ogbonispelltemple@gmail.com

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  41. who ever is reading this testimony today should please celebrate with me and my family because it all started like a joke to some people and others said it was impossible. my name is Wilson Andrson, i live in London, United Kingdom i am happily married with three kids and a lovely wife something terrible happen to my family along the line, i lost my job and my wife packed out of my house because i was... unable to take care of her and my kids at that particular time. i manage all through three years, no wife to support me to take care of the children and there come a faithful day that i will never forget in my life i met an old friend who i explain all my difficulties to, and he took me to a spell caster and the name of the temple is called, priest grace, i was assure that everything will be fine and my wife will come back to me after the wonderful work of priest grace, my wife came back to me and today i am one of the richest man in my country. i advice you if you have any problem email him with this email: kizzekpespells@outlook.com and you will have the best result. take things for granted and it will be take from you. i wish you all the best for luck his email: kizzekpespells@outlook.com

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  42. An amazing testimony on a spell caster who brought my wife back to me.. My name is collins i live in uk,and I`m happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids A very big problem occurred in my family 6 months ago,between me and my wife so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she did not love me anymore So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.{priestoremisolutiontemple367@gmail.com}. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next 5 day what an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next 5dats morning, So surprisingly, my wife who did not call me for the past seven {6}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my kids . Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster . So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website {priestoremisolutiontemple367@gmail.com},if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to “bringing your ex back. So thanks to the babatemple for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family once Thanks…

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  43. I can’t thank you enough Email: ekakaspelltemple@yahoo.com for all that you have done for me. About a year ago I my partner had a misunderstanding that lead to break up, we had both made BIG mistakes in our relationship. He ended up moving away from me to pursue a new life. I knew in my heart that he would be the only one to make me happy. I was relieved when I found your site and what you had to offer. I requested 3 to 4 day casting of the reunite us love spell and within 4days Denny company had relocated him back to our hometown where I still lived. We immediately reconnected and move in with each other i am so happy that i found you and i was all patient to following your order thank you Dr Ekaka. If you are in need of help i will advice you to contact him

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  44. THE GREAT POWERFUL SPELL CASTER THAT BRING BACK MY EX BOYFRIEND. I just want to say thank you Dr Efe for all you have done for me. He is back now. That very powerful spell caster STOP THE DIVORCE - and get my ex boyfriend back. My name is Annmarie George , from Canada. I never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went for a business summit early this year. I meant a man who's name is Dr Efe he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back one's gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell for a good job or luck spell .I'm now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down because our relationship has been on for 3years. I really loved him, but his mother was against us and he had no good paying job. So when i met this spell caster,i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him. At first i was undecided, skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try.And in 7 days when i returned to Canada, my boyfriend(now husband) called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mother and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married. I didn't believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do. Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and my husband also got the new job and our lives became much better.in case you are in any situation you can contact Dr Efe at his email efespelltemple@yahoo.com or his personal cell +2348106985072 Thank you for all your help Dr Efe i promise to share this Testimony to every body in the world wide.efespelltemple@yahoo.com is the email address.

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  45. My name is Mr Frank Silver,I live in Mexico,and I’m happily married with a lovely wife and three children. I had a very big problem with my wife few months ago,to the extent that she even packed her things away from me and my kids for almost 5 months,and i tried all my possible best and effort to bring her back,but all to no avail.I discussed it with a very good friend of mine,and he gave me an advice concerning a spell caster,and i quote.“There’s someone who can handle your situation,he’s always ready and able to do anything related to spell casting,i will like you to contact him with his email,which is as follows.”osobas Great Oracle Temple Solution”. I never believed in spell casting,but he convinced me and i had no choice than to follow his advice,because i never dreamt of loosing my lovely wife.And that’s how i contacted him with his email address,and i discussed with him and so surprisingly,he told me that I’ll get my wife back a day after.so i never believed,until when i got home,the next day,my wife called me to inform me that she was coming back…..So amazing!! That’s how i got my wife back through spell casting and our relationship was now stronger than how it was before.One of the price i was asked to pay was to tell it to people around me that problems like this,can always be solved by “osobas Great Oracle Temple Solution”. So! my advice for you out there is to visit this same website,and tell him your problems too,if you are in any condition related to love issue or getting your ex back,to have a happy family.THANKS.... HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS osobaspelltemple@gmail.com. CONTACT HIM TODAY VIA THIS EMAIL ADDRESS: osobaspelltemple@gmail.com AS HIS POWERS ARE SO STRONG AND VERY EFFECTIVE AND HAS NO BAD EFFECT INSTEAD IT HAVE A VERY GOOD RESULT AFTER CASTING THE SPELL. MY LOVER IS BACK TO MY LIFE

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  46. My name is Mr Cardenas,my wife was having affair with a senior secretary in her office. I love this woman so much that i would not want to share her with any body. i told her to retire from the job and i would take care of all her needs but she would take it because she is been embraced by everybody in her office, this normally leads to quarrel every-time. i tried all i can to please her and she will promise to be good , some days later she will turn back to her normal way.
    i was nearly loosing out, i could not focus in my job, my whole life was full of sorrow and i was thinking i should kill the other man my self and put an end to all this until i saw a testimony from a blog on how DR EDIONWE could cast a love spell to bring lovers back no matter what is behind the disappointment. so i decided to write him via email. edionwesolutiontemple@yahoo.com and now all my wishes are exactly as i wanted. She told me everything that has happened secretly in the past and i forgave her as DR EDIONWE instructed me to and she loves me and care for me as i ever wanted. i know there are many spells that do not work but i want to assure all you out there no matter what you have been trough to have faith and believe that this is the final solution to your problem.
    Even if my job is taking most of my time, the little free time i have , i will share the good news to everyone in the world because i know that with love brings happiness and hope for a long life.

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  47. I have just found the right spell caster who has bring back my happiness by helping me get my ex back after 2years and i must thank my Dr. Lee who has play a very vital part of my life making me a great person and the most happiest person today you are a great man who is bless by God with traditional healing spell caster, after Dr. Lee has help me get my ex back he also help me recover what i have lost from me i must thank Dr. Lee for the life he has restored back for me and my happiness. Now i am doing well in my work happily with my wife, Dr. Lee is a very great spell caster you need to know just meet him and your problem will be over.. Email him via: Ancientfathersandmothers@gmail.com

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  48. Well, today is the 8th of march and Jim asked me if we could be back together this morning. Of course I said yes. Thanks to you priestess Munak, thanks to the spirits, thank you God. I cannot thank you enough priestess for bringing him back into my life. I didn’t think it was never gonna be possible possible after all i did to him, I had lost my hope and most of any little faith that I had to begin with, but thanks to you, I have my love and my life back. Thank you. God bless you many many times over for all the help you give to people, you have a beautiful gift to humanity, priestess email is priestessmunak@gmail.com. contact her on relationship or life issues

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  49. I want to be really honest about myself and announce to the world about how i was able to get my ex lover back. When my lover left me for another guy i was so down casted to the extend i was thinking of all most killing myself, And as a matter of facts i needed urgent help, So i was seeking for advise from different source both from the internet and from friends around me. And one lucky day for me i came across this great man contact information that saved my life by bringing my lover back to me within the period of 48 hours. Well i know everybody will be wondering who is this great man?, He is nobody else than Dr.Kuma and you can easily reach Dr.Kuma on this contact information below +2348072371282 or send him a mail on Kumalovespell@gmail.com and i assure you that within the next few hours you will be in greater joy.

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  50. sharon
    This is a testimony that i will tell to every one to hear. i have been married four 4years and on the fifth year of my marriage, another woman had a spell to take my lover away from me and my husband left me and the kids and we have suffered for 2years until i meant a post where this man Dr, Love have helped someone and i decided to give him a try to help me bring my love Husband home and believe me i just send my picture to him and that of my husband and after 48hours as he have told me, i saw a car drove into the house and behold it was my husband and he have come to me and the kids and that is why i am happy to make every one of you in similar to met with this man and have your lover back to your self. His email: drlovetemple@gmail.com you can also contact him on his web site

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  51. I am PANDEV from canada.I never
    believe in spells and magic until I
    experienced one some times ago and it
    really worked for me. I was in love with
    this guy and he is in love with me too for
    3years and we making preparations to get married but to my surprise,his
    parents didn't want his hand in the
    marriage because of the religion
    difference. I was about loosing my man
    to another lady under the influence of his
    parents until I met a spell caster on net that claimed he can help me out.
    He
    helped me cast a very strong spell that
    helped change his parents mind and i
    noticed also that my man love for me has
    greatly increased. We are happily
    married now with kids. People with similar problems can contact the spell
    caster on drodionspelltemple@gmail.com)
    He cast spells for different purposes like
    (1) If you want your ex back.
    (2) if you always have bad dreams.
    (3) You want to be promoted in your office.
    (4) You want women/men to run after
    you.
    (5) If you want a child.
    (6) You want to be rich.
    (7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever.
    (8) If you need financial assistance.
    (9) Herbal care
    Contact him today on:
    at:drodoinspelltemple@gmail

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  52. I NEVER BELIEVED IN LOVE SPELLS UNTIL I MET THIS WORLD'S TOP SPELL CASTER. HE IS REALLY POWERFUL AND COULD HELP CAST SPELLS TO BRING BACK ONE'S GONE,LOST,MISBEHAVING LOVER AND MAGIC MONEY SPELL OR SPELL FOR A GOOD JOB.I'M NOW HAPPY & A LIVING TESTIMONY COS THE WOMAN I HAD WANTED TO MARRY LEFT ME 2 WEEKS BEFORE OUR WEDDING AND MY LIFE WAS UPSIDE DOWN COS OUR RELATIONSHIP HAS BEEN ON FOR 2YEARS... I REALLY LOVED HIM, BUT HIS MOTHER WAS AGAINST US AND HE HAD NO GOOD PAYING JOB. SO WHEN I MET THIS SPELL CASTER, I TOLD HIM WHAT HAPPENED AND EXPLAINED THE SITUATION OF THINGS TO HIM..AT FIRST I WAS UNDECIDED,SKEPTICAL AND DOUBTFUL, BUT I JUST GAVE IT A TRY. AND IN 7 DAYS WHEN I RETURNED TO USA, MY GIRLFRIEND(NOW WIFE) CALLED ME BY HERSELF AND CAME TO ME APOLOGIZING THAT EVERYTHING HAD BEEN SETTLED WITH HIS MOM AND FAMILY AND SHE GOT A NEW JOB INTERVIEW SO WE SHOULD GET MARRIED..I DIDN'T BELIEVE IT COS THE SPELL CASTER ONLY ASKED FOR MY NAME AND MY GIRLFRIENDS NAME AND ALL I WANTED HIM TO DO... WELL WE ARE HAPPILY MARRIED NOW AND WE ARE EXPECTING OUR LITTLE KID,AND MY WIFE ALSO GOT THE NEW JOB AND OUR LIVES BECAME MUCH BETTER. IN CASE ANYONE NEEDS THE SPELL CASTER FOR SOME HELP, HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS;okutemple@hotmail.com ......HOPE HE HELPS YOU OUT OUR OPPORTUNITY ... CONTACT THIS GREAT SPELL CASTER VIA EMAIL:okutemple@hotmail.com

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  53. Oh my God, I'm so glad to tell everyone the real thing that happen to me...My name is EMILIANO BABARAH. If i refuse to share this testimony it means i am selfish to my self and to people i love so much whom might have similar problems, March 16th about something 7:23pm after taken our dinner my husband got crazy started calling a lady name Melisa I love you, i was so mad and started crying like a baby...then my husband left home for the idiot called Melisa, and never return back home then i believed when he uthen nderstand his self he will surly come back to apology, but instead he left me So i complained to my friend she told me she was having such problems in her marriage until she was introduce to DR ORIOMON who specializes in bringing back broken homes and broken marriages DR ORIOMON cast a spell for me in May 4th surprisingly my husband came home May 6th apologizing that i should forgive him that it will never happen again, i was so glad and gave the thanks to DR ORIOMON who save my marriage, if you are having similar problem you can contact him and His email address is (oriomonspiritualtemple@yahoo.com) you can still save your marriage if u really love your husband.


    Thanks EMILIANO BABARAH_USA

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  54. Thank you Dr ONIHA The King of all spell caster you are the best spell caster that i have ever seen in my life the spell you casted for me have work very perfectly my ex boyfriend who live me for over 3week now is back and apologizing for me to come back to him that he is very sorry for the pain he cost me and i am so happy Doctor your spell is nice and make me fill alive again i will keep sharing you good work all over the world about the good spell you cast for me to get John back and i will also give your email address to everybody who is in need of help like you told me that you can cast a spell to bring ex back, Money spell, Protection spell, lotto spell, Good job spell, pregnancy spell, Love spell, and many other spell you told me you can cast for me if i need them i hope you will find a place to help other so they can give testimonies like me Doctor ONIHA The King of all spell caster please help others many people are having problem try to get help from people but they is nobody like you to help them solve there problem like you do Dr ONIHA The King of all spell caster if anyone need the help of this nice man contact him via this email:onihaspiritualtemple@yahoo.com

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  55. i want to thank Dr jaja for bringing back my ex husband, we broke up for more than 4 month and he told me that he will never want to see me in his life again. i love him so much to the extend that i could not do any thing again, i was confused and depress due to the love i had for him.i did everything i could do to have him come back to me but all went in vain. so i decided to contact a spell caster, i did not believe in spell casting i just want to try it may be it would work out for me. i contacted drjaja for help, he told me that he have to cast a love spell on him, i told him to it. after 5 days my called me and started to apologize for leaving me and also he told me that he still love me. i was very happy and i thank dr jaja for helping get back my ex husband back to my hands. his spell is the the greatest all over the world, it was the love spell he cast on my ex that make him come back to me. all you ladies who want back the ex husband back i want you to contact Dr jaja at the following email address and get all your problem solve..No problem is too big for him to solve..Contact him direct at pekokospelltemple@gmail.com and get your problems solve

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  56. Be careful here nobody can help you here or even suggest how you can get your ex or love back,any testimonies of most spell caster here must be ignore.because most of them are scam i mean real scam which i was a victim and i got ripped of thousands of dollars because i was so anxious to get my wife back after she left me for over 2 years with my 7 years old son jerry,i have applied to 7 different spell caster here and all to no avail they all ask for same thing send your name your ex name address and picture phone number etc which i did over and over again and most of them were from west Africa until i saw a post about mama Anita spell and i decided to gave her my last trail.she ask me four things my real name,my ex and my ex mother name and $180 and said my ex will come back in 24hours, i have paid over $3000 on spell casting and courier and nothing have work for me after 3 days i was thinking about how much i have lost so far so i said let me give her a try so i called her again and send my real name,my ex and my ex mother name and the $180 because i swear it was my last try so i was waiting as she told me to wait till next day and i could not sleep that night because i really love my wife and want her back at 9pm that day i saw my wife on line on face book and she said hi at first i was shock because she never talk with me for the past a year and 9 month now i did not reply again she said are you there? i quickly reply yes and she said can we see tomorrow i said yes and she went off-line i was confused i try to chat her again but she was no more on line i could not sleep that night as i was wondering what she is going to say, by 7.am the next morning she gave me a miss call i decided not to call back as i was still on shock again she call and i pick she said can we see after work today i said yes so she end the call immediately i got off work she call me and we meet and now we are back again i call mama anita the next day thanking her for what she has done in fact i still call her and thank her as my life was not complete without my wife please be careful here i have been scam thousands of dollars if you want a true love spell then contact mama Anita (mama.anitatruelovespell@gmail.com)

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  57. I want to use this medium to tell the world about PROPHET ROBSON who helped me in getting my lover back with his powerful spell, my ex and i where having misunderstanding which led to our breakup though i went to beg her several times to please forgive and accept me back because i know i offended her but each time i went i away feel more deeply in pain and agony because she away walk out on me and would not want to listen to what i have to tell but on i faithful day as i was browsing i came across a testimony of a woman whose problem was more than mine and yet PROPHET ROBSON helped her with his spell so i was happy and also contacted PROPHET ROBSON for help via email prophetrobsontemple@yahoo.com and then told him my story but the only thing he said was that i will wipe you tear with my spell so lucky for me everything want well just as he promised and right now i have got my fiance back and we are both living happily. there is nothing PROPHET ROBSON can not do with is spell and just as promise my self i will keep testifying on the internet of how PROPHET ROBSON helped me.Are your problem greater that mine or less i give you 100% guarantee that PROPHET ROBSON will put an end to it with his powerful spell, contact PROPHET ROBSON for help Via email prophetrobsontemple@yahoo.com

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  58. Thanks to Dr oshoum, i am very grateful to him for bringing my Man back after two years of broken marriage because of pregnancy problem. I Tammie love my man and he is my source of finance. we love to have kids and his dad want to see him bear kids before he can will his property to him but i could not bear him a child dew to miss_carried then he decide to live me for another another lady. i search every where for him and i could not find, i read different book on broken marriage just to encourage my self, i visit different site then a friend on face book( nora warland) direct me to Dr oshogum with his email address OSHOGUMSPELLTEMPLE@LIVE.COM, than i contact him and tell him my problem and i did what he ask me to do after two day my handsband called me and ask of my location. To the glory of Dr. oshogum my Husband is back my life and the lady she married did not also bear him a child all for the help of Dr. oshogum. Now i have a baby boy for him and still expecting another child by july.
    for any marriage or relationship problem contact oshogum now with oshogumspelltemple@live.com OR call him now +23408189357261
    contact oshogum now with oshogumspelltemple@live.com OR call him now +23408189357261

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  59. Great thanks to Dr. oshogum I am so happy to let the whole word know how this powerful spell caster saved my marriage. Everything was going down to drain as my husband can not stop cheating on me with other women. It became used to always cheating on me. I tried to make him stop, but I couldn’t help the situation, the more I tried, the harder it becomes. At times we will fight and go apart for some months and we will come back again just because of our kids and because he help to treat my sick mother. One day a friend told me about this spell caster who helped her too, his name is Dr.oshogum, and gave his contact oshogumspelltemple@live.com or call +2348189357261. she said he uses real power spells to solve spiritual problems. I decided to give it a try, I contacted him and he told me it will take just 2 to 3 days and I will see great changes in my husband. He actually cast a spell, believe me after 2 to 3 days of the spell, my husband was confessing different names of woman he has slept with. He begged for forgiveness and never to try it again. From that day till now, my mind is at rest. My husband dislike every other women on earth except me. And am so happy to have him for myself alone. and i also decide to tell Dr. oshogum about my mother sickness. he also requested for some items to cure the illness. after three days my mother again her strength and she is fully recovered now. i am so happy. The spell caster’s contact is oshogumspelltemple@live.com or call him with +2348189357261
    contact him now with oshogumspelltemple@live.com or call him with +2348189357261

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  60. my name is clara from CANADA, I want to thank the great Dr oriwo for what he did for me he brought happiness back into my life. My boyfriend left me and told me is over I was devastated as I loved him so much I decided to contact a spelI caster and I met a friend who told me of a great doctor and I decided to contact him and he told me in three days my boyfriend will call me and beg me to accept him I thought he was joking in three days everything happened as he said I am so happy can also contact him at;landofsalvation@gmail.com for any kind of help, or call 2347052534659.

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  61. I NEVER BELIEVED IN LOVE SPELLS UNTIL I MET THIS WORLD’S TOP SPELL CASTER. HE IS REALLY POWERFUL AND COULD HELP CAST SPELLS TO BRING BACK ONE’S GONE,LOST,MISBEHAVING LOVER AND MAGIC MONEY SPELL OR SPELL FOR A GOOD JOB.I’M NOW HAPPY & A LIVING TESTIMONY COS THE WOMAN I HAD WANTED TO MARRY LEFT ME 2 WEEKS BEFORE OUR WEDDING AND MY LIFE WAS UPSIDE DOWN COS OUR RELATIONSHIP HAS BEEN ON FOR 2YEARS… I REALLY LOVED HIM, BUT HIS MOTHER WAS AGAINST US AND HE HAD NO GOOD PAYING JOB. SO WHEN I MET THIS SPELL CASTER, I TOLD HIM WHAT HAPPENED AND EXPLAINED THE SITUATION OF THINGS TO HIM..AT FIRST I WAS UNDECIDED,SKEPTICAL AND DOUBTFUL, BUT I JUST GAVE IT A TRY. AND IN 7 DAYS WHEN I RETURNED TO USA, MY GIRLFRIEND(NOW WIFE) CALLED ME BY HERSELF AND CAME TO ME APOLOGIZING THAT EVERYTHING HAD BEEN SETTLED WITH HIS MOM AND FAMILY AND SHE GOT A NEW JOB INTERVIEW SO WE SHOULD GET MARRIED..I DIDN’T BELIEVE IT COS THE SPELL CASTER ONLY ASKED FOR MY NAME AND MY GIRLFRIENDS NAME AND ALL I WANTED HIM TO DO… WELL WE ARE HAPPILY MARRIED NOW AND WE ARE EXPECTING OUR LITTLE KID,AND MY WIFE ALSO GOT THE NEW JOB AND OUR LIVES BECAME MUCH BETTER. IN CASE ANYONE NEEDS THE SPELL CASTER FOR SOME HELP, HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS;ohehenemenspelltemple001@gmail.com ……HOPE HE HELPS YOU OUT OUR OPPORTUNITY … CONTACT THIS GREAT SPELL CASTER VIA EMAIL ohehenemenspelltemple001@gmail.com

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  62. My name is John Sheri i'm from California i have been married for 4years and i have a break up with my husband 3months ago and i was worried and so confuse because i love him so much. i was really going too depressed and a friend directed me to this spell caster Dr. Laco and i made all my problems known to him and he told me not to worry that he was going to make my husband to come back to me and in just 48hours i receive a call from my husband and he was appealing that i should come back to the house. i have never in my life believe in spell and but now it have just helped me and i am now so happy. All Thanks to him and if you also want to have your Husband back to yourself here !! his email Address lacopowerfulspellcaster@yahoo.com i am so happy to testify of your work and kindness

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  63. Oh my God, I'm so glad to tell everyone the real thing that happen to me...My name is EMILIANO BABARAH. If i refuse to share this testimony it means i am selfish to my self and to people i love so much whom might have similar problems, March 16th about something 7:23pm after taken our dinner my husband got crazy started calling a lady name Melisa I love you, i was so mad and started crying like a baby...then my husband left home for the idiot called Melisa, and never return back home then i believed when he uthen nderstand his self he will surly come back to apology, but instead he left me So i complained to my friend she told me she was having such problems in her marriage until she was introduce to DR ORIOMON who specializes in bringing back broken homes and broken marriages DR ORIOMON cast a spell for me in May 4th surprisingly my husband came home May 6th apologizing that i should forgive him that it will never happen again, i was so glad and gave the thanks to DR ORIOMON who save my marriage, if you are having similar problem you can contact him and His email address is (oriomonspiritualtemple@yahoo.com) you can still save your marriage if u really love your husband.


    Thanks EMILIANO BABARAH_USA


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  64. Good Day,,, Mr name is Mrs Victoria Cole, Am from Florida, I had a serious quarrel with my husband due to my parent, my parent never like him to be my husband, but i love him so much that i will rather die to let him go off me, that was how i met this great man of voodoo online, he told me that everything will be fine that he can do a spell that will make my parent love him and allow me to marry him without any quarrel thoroughly it came to pass my mum and dad love him most than before we are now happy married family,please help me in thanking him for his help, here is the email esangopriest@gmail.com

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  65. I am her to share my experience with the world on how i got my love back and saved my marriage… I was married for 6 years with 3 good lovely kids and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had a fights and arguments almost every time… it got worse at a point that he filed for divorce… I tried my best to make him change his mind & stay with me cause i loved him with all my heart and didn't want to loose him but everything just didn't work out… he moved out of the house and still went ahead to file for divorce… I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell casterdr.trust who eventually helped me out… I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly cause I was desperate and left with no choice… He did special prayers and cast a love spell on him. Within 7 days he called me and was sorry for all the emotional trauma he had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily, the kids are happy too and we are expecting our fourth child… I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news… Just thought I should share my experience cause I strongly believe someone out there needs it… You can email him at: Ultimatespellcast@gmail.com or you can call him +2348156885231.

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  66. I have always wanted to be able to not live paycheck to paycheck or have any debt. I worked in accounting for about 20 years and was barely able to make ends meet. It seemed like any time I moved up in the company and received a raise, my living expenses would go up significantly and I was never able to get ahead. lottery spells. Then one day my best friend told me the truth about what he did when his wife left him. He had a love spell cast and she stopped the divorce proceedings and they got back together. When he told me this I asked who he used and he gave me a web site visit him which is:www.priestutilamagictemple.webs.com and I immediately contacted him for help. I saw that he offered different kinds of money spells to help win the lottery. I was immediately intrigued. I have always felt like I was going to win the lottery someday. I had the jackpot lottery spell cast and awaited my win. I was told to play the lottery each week and I did what I was told. I played the lottery each week anyways, so it did not change anything. Within about two weeks it happened. I won $100,000!! I could not believe it! It was not enough money to retire right away, but I invested it well and it has allowed me to go down to part time work and will help me retire much earlier. I am eternally grateful for finding their web site://priestutilamagictemple.webs.com/ you can also contact him with this email ok ( utilasolutiontemple@gmail.com ) or
    ( utilamagictemple@outlook.com ) THANKS FOR THE HELP AM GRATEFUL.

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  67. I am lucy, i never factotum believes in spells and magic until I experienced one sometimes ago and it really worked for me . I was in love . With this guy and I have is in love with me for 4 years and We Were Ready to get married until this lady strolled along and took my man away from me . i was really devastated so i contact a friend of mine who now introduces me to drokojie , and I said That he is going to help me cast a spell That We bring back my man Within three day , and I did it I have is the best spell cast in the word Also I solve problems like eg,
    ( 1) If you want your ex back
    ( 2) if you always have bad dreams .
    ( 3) You want to be Promoted in your office .
    ( 4) You want women / men to run after you .
    (5) If you want a child .
    (6 ) You want to be rich .
    ( 7) You want to tie your husband / wife to be
    yours forever .
    ( 8) If you need financial assistance .
    ( 9) Herbal care
    (10 ) If you can not be able to Satisfy your wife
    sex desire due or
    err low action.
    (11 ) if your menstruation refuse to come
    out the day it
    suppose or over flows.
    ( 12) your work if you refuse to pay , people
    owe owing you? .
    ( 13) to solve land issue and get it back .
    ( 14) Did your family Denny you of your
    right ?
    (15 ) Let my people obey my words and do
    wish
    (16 ) Do you have a low sperm count ?
    ( 17) Case solve E.T.C. his email drokojiehealinghome@gmail.com , Friends i must tell you the truth dr egbo is a very reliable spell caster .

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  68. My name is Gloria Philips from United kingdom ..I want to say lot of thanks to Dr. Otono for get my ex boyfriend back…I was in lot of worry when my boyfriend gone away from me due to some misunderstanding.. I contacted and told to Dr. Otono that I need him back and make him to love me more and make him
    marry me.. He Did spell cast for me without getting any money and now my boyfriend talking with me so nice and I got him back within 24hour and he told me that “I love you” within 48 hours… now he loving me so much… Dr. Otono is god for me…I gonna get marry with my boyfriend end of this year……
    Anyone want get success like me means please contact Dr. Otono and his mail id is
    otonospelltemple53@gmail.com

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  69. I am from USA, I promise to share this testimony all over the world once my boyfriend return back to me, and today with all due respect i want to thank Dr.Ogala for bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loosed my boyfriend, I required help until i found Dr.Ogala a grate spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and he assured me that I will get my boyfriend back in two days after the spell has been cast. two days later, my phone rang, and so shockingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for past 3 years, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to be my back bone till the rest of his life with me. Dr.Ogala released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have share together. As I’m writing this testimony right now I’m the most happiest girl on earth.we are married with one kid and our love is now stronger than how it were even before. So that’s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe.All thanks goes to Dr.Ogala for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the email address in situation you are undergoing a heart break,or any problem and I assure you that as he has done mine, he will definitely help you too. Holyspellcast@gmail.com

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  70. I and my husband have been having a lot of problem living together, he will always not make me happy because he have fallen in love with another lady outside our relationship, i tried my best to make sure that my husband leave this woman but the more i talk to him the more he makes me feel sad, so my marriage is now leading to divorce because he no longer gives me attention. so with all this pain and agony, i decided to contact this spell caster to see if things can work out between me and my husband again. the spell caster told me what i will do to get my husband back, so he told me that he was going to make all things normal back. he did the spell on my husband and after 2 days my husband changed completely he even apologize with the way he treated me that he was not him self, i really thank this priest his name is Dr ogala he have bring back my husband back to me i want you all to contact him who are having any problem related to marriage issue and relationship problem he will solve it for you. his email Holyspellcast@gmail.com

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