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What would you rather do right now, write down the last
conversation you had or watch a funny video guaranteed to make you laugh? What
about a month from now – do you think you’d rather read about a random conversation
you had last month or watch another funny video? These are some of the questions
researchers asked in a recent set of studies exploring our tendency to underestimate how much pleasure we get
out of rediscovering mundane experiences. Participants in these studies consistently
expected that they would not be very interested in rereading a log of an
ordinary event in their everyday lives. But a couple of months down the road
when the time came to reread that log, they found themselves much more interested
and experienced more pleasure than they had expected. This was partly because
they had forgotten a lot more of the event than they had expected they would! In
the moment, we think why record our everyday experiences, we will remember them
in the future and they aren’t that memorable anyway. Even just a month later
though, our memories of the event begin to dim, the details fall away, and what
once seemed ordinary feels a bit more extraordinary.