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text-align: center;\"\u003E\u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/-Xhnc_-ZxUmQ\/VWO38MjerrI\/AAAAAAAABk8\/Gpe3XfUzYGc\/s1600\/Fatal-Attraction-glenn-close-35231726-3043-1978.jpg\" imageanchor=\"1\" style=\"clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"\u003E\u003Cimg border=\"0\" height=\"208\" src=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/-Xhnc_-ZxUmQ\/VWO38MjerrI\/AAAAAAAABk8\/Gpe3XfUzYGc\/s320\/Fatal-Attraction-glenn-close-35231726-3043-1978.jpg\" width=\"320\"\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/div\u003EWhen it comes to dating, we’re often told that we should trust our instincts: If it feels right, go for it, but if you get a bad feeling from someone, steer clear.\u003Cbr\u003E\u003Cbr\u003EThese instincts can certainly be helpful at times, but they’re also subject to a number of biases that can lead us to trust the wrong people and overlook the right ones.\u003Cbr\u003E\u003Cbr\u003EHere are just three ways that our romantic instincts can lead us astray.\u003Cbr\u003E\u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/psych-your-mind.blogspot.com\/2015\/05\/3-ways-your-romantic-instincts-can-lead.html#more\"\u003ERead More-\u0026gt;\u003C\/a\u003E"},"link":[{"rel":"replies","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/psych-your-mind.blogspot.com\/feeds\/2257852267468725258\/comments\/default","title":"Post Comments"},{"rel":"replies","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/psych-your-mind.blogspot.com\/2015\/05\/3-ways-your-romantic-instincts-can-lead.html#comment-form","title":"0 Comments"},{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6451967208270832502\/posts\/default\/2257852267468725258"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6451967208270832502\/posts\/default\/2257852267468725258"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/psych-your-mind.blogspot.com\/2015\/05\/3-ways-your-romantic-instincts-can-lead.html","title":"3 Ways Your Romantic Instincts Can Lead You Astray"}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Juli"},"uri":{"$t":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/11680528427434926352"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"media$thumbnail":{"xmlns$media":"http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/","url":"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/-Xhnc_-ZxUmQ\/VWO38MjerrI\/AAAAAAAABk8\/Gpe3XfUzYGc\/s72-c\/Fatal-Attraction-glenn-close-35231726-3043-1978.jpg","height":"72","width":"72"},"thr$total":{"$t":"0"}},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451967208270832502.post-7469369854913886670"},"published":{"$t":"2015-05-15T13:27:00.001-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2015-05-15T13:27:42.277-07:00"},"category":[{"scheme":"http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#","term":"Judgment and Decision Making"},{"scheme":"http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#","term":"Juli"}],"title":{"type":"text","$t":"10 Tips for Making a Tough Decision"},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"\u003Ctable cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" class=\"tr-caption-container\" style=\"float: left; 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Whether they\u0026#39;re the kind of decisions we dream about or the kind that we dread, research on decision-making has uncovered a number of useful strategies for gaining clarity.\u003Cbr\u003E\u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/psych-your-mind.blogspot.com\/2015\/05\/10-tips-for-making-tough-decision.html#more\"\u003ERead More-\u0026gt;\u003C\/a\u003E"},"link":[{"rel":"replies","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/psych-your-mind.blogspot.com\/feeds\/7469369854913886670\/comments\/default","title":"Post Comments"},{"rel":"replies","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/psych-your-mind.blogspot.com\/2015\/05\/10-tips-for-making-tough-decision.html#comment-form","title":"0 Comments"},{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6451967208270832502\/posts\/default\/7469369854913886670"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6451967208270832502\/posts\/default\/7469369854913886670"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/psych-your-mind.blogspot.com\/2015\/05\/10-tips-for-making-tough-decision.html","title":"10 Tips for Making a Tough Decision"}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Juli"},"uri":{"$t":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/11680528427434926352"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"media$thumbnail":{"xmlns$media":"http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/","url":"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-IoFvbo1yESk\/VVZWaFwSAaI\/AAAAAAAABjs\/qj9UixNzXyE\/s72-c\/7753070058_45ba1a9220_q.jpg","height":"72","width":"72"},"thr$total":{"$t":"0"}},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451967208270832502.post-6055928766165562230"},"published":{"$t":"2014-10-19T19:38:00.001-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2014-10-19T19:47:08.256-07:00"},"category":[{"scheme":"http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#","term":"Emotion"},{"scheme":"http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#","term":"Health\/Happiness"},{"scheme":"http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#","term":"Juli"},{"scheme":"http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#","term":"Positive Psychology"},{"scheme":"http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#","term":"Romantic Relationships"},{"scheme":"http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#","term":"Self-Esteem"},{"scheme":"http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#","term":"Self-Improvement"}],"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Does Forgiveness Have a Dark Side?"},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"\u003Cdiv class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"\u003E\u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/-4ern8CYjpm8\/VER0K-LsR6I\/AAAAAAAABUE\/zH3-vxPAwko\/s1600\/images.jpeg\" imageanchor=\"1\" style=\"clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"\u003E\u003Cimg border=\"0\" src=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/-4ern8CYjpm8\/VER0K-LsR6I\/AAAAAAAABUE\/zH3-vxPAwko\/s1600\/images.jpeg\" height=\"212\" width=\"320\"\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom: 14.0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;\"\u003E\u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/basics\/forgiveness\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"color: blue; text-decoration: none;\"\u003EForgiveness\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/a\u003Eis widely considered to be a psychologically healthy and morally virtuous approach to coping with victimization. Research suggests that people who forgive more easily are \u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/psp.sagepub.com\/content\/29\/6\/759.abstract\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"color: blue;\"\u003Ehappier\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"color: #262626;\"\u003E \u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/a\u003Eand \u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pubmed\/14593849\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"color: blue;\"\u003Ehealthier\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"color: #262626;\"\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/a\u003Ethan those who hold grudges. In addition, forgiveness interventions have been shown to \u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/pss.sagepub.com\/content\/12\/2\/117.short\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"color: blue;\"\u003Ereduce stress reactivity\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E, \u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/learningtoforgive.com\/research\/effects-of-group-forgiveness-intervention-on-perceived-stress-state-and-trait-anger-symptoms-of-stress-self-reported-health-and-forgiveness-stanford-forgiveness-project\/\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"color: blue;\"\u003Eincrease optimism\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E, and \u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Forgiveness-Reconciliation-Application-Everett-Worthington\/dp\/1583913335\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"color: blue;\"\u003Efacilitate reconciliation\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E with offenders.\u003Co:p\u003E\u003C\/o:p\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom: 14.0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: 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src=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/-8bb0zGmtwAo\/VD3ma57InwI\/AAAAAAAABTo\/LMfp3I3PrMI\/s1600\/Social-Support.png\" height=\"320\" width=\"268\"\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\"MsoNormal\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;\"\u003ENumerous studies have demonstrated the\u003Cspan style=\"color: blue;\"\u003E \u003C\/span\u003E\u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/www.psy.cmu.edu\/~scohen\/AmerPsycholpaper.pdf\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"text-decoration: none;\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"color: blue;\"\u003Ecritical importance of social support\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"color: #1d59a6; text-decoration: none; text-underline: none;\"\u003E \u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/a\u003Efor physical and mental health. For example, one study showed that stressed middle-aged men with higher levels of available emotional support were significantly \u003Cspan style=\"color: blue;\"\u003E\u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC1679147\/\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"text-decoration: none;\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"color: blue;\"\u003Eless likely to die\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E \u003C\/span\u003Eover a 7-year period than those who lacked such support. Another study found that an absence of social support was a \u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pubmed\/22017561\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"text-decoration: none;\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"color: blue;\"\u003Emajor predictor of depression\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003Co:p\u003E\u003C\/o:p\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\"MsoNormal\"\u003E\u003Cbr\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\"MsoNormal\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;\"\u003EIn our everyday lives, we often have opportunities to provide support to friends, family members, or coworkers, but it can be hard to know how to do it in the most effective way. Research in social psychology has revealed some principles for giving good support that challenge common assumptions. 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href=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/-tc6tXT0G6hs\/U4D99Tqt12I\/AAAAAAAABMU\/CpMwnPE2_hs\/s1600\/movie-review-photo-_-the-break-up-screen-savor.jpg\" imageanchor=\"1\" style=\"clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"\u003E\u003Cimg border=\"0\" src=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/-tc6tXT0G6hs\/U4D99Tqt12I\/AAAAAAAABMU\/CpMwnPE2_hs\/s1600\/movie-review-photo-_-the-break-up-screen-savor.jpg\" height=\"191\" width=\"320\"\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom: 13pt;\"\u003E\u003Cspan class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Times, \u0026#39;Times New Roman\u0026#39;, serif;\"\u003EYour ex is your ex for a reason. But he or she was also an important part of your life for a significant amount of time, and it’s understandable to want to hold on to that relationship in some capacity. Many former couples, whether they were \u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/51739530_Can_we_be_(and_stay)_friends_Remaining_friends_after_dissolution_of_a_romantic_relationship\"\u003E\u003Cspan class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"color: blue;\"\u003Edating partners\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E or \u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Handbook-Divorce-Relationship-Dissolution-Mark\/dp\/0805851283\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"color: #0020dd;\"\u003Espouses\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E, try to remain friends after a break-up, and some are able to manage this transition successfully.\u003Co:p\u003E\u003C\/o:p\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom: 13pt;\"\u003E\u003Cspan class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Times, \u0026#39;Times New Roman\u0026#39;, serif;\"\u003EResearch suggests, however, that on average exes tend to have \u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/spr.sagepub.com\/content\/17\/3\/451\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"color: #0020dd;\"\u003Elower quality friendships\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E than platonic opposite sex friends who were never romantically involved: they are less emotionally supportive, less helpful, less trusting, and less concerned about the other person’s happiness. This is especially true, not surprisingly, for former partners who were \u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/51739530_Can_we_be_(and_stay)_friends_Remaining_friends_after_dissolution_of_a_romantic_relationship\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"color: #0020dd;\"\u003Edissatisfied with the romantic relationship\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E, and when the break-up was \u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/onlinelibrary.wiley.com\/doi\/10.1111\/j.1540-4560.1976.tb02485.x\/abstract\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"color: #0020dd;\"\u003Enot mutual.\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Co:p\u003E\u003C\/o:p\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom: 13pt;\"\u003E\u003Cspan class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Times, \u0026#39;Times New Roman\u0026#39;, serif;\"\u003EThe probability that a friendship with an ex will be a positive rather than painful experience depends in part on your motives, including the ones that you would rather not openly acknowledge. Here are ten reasons that can get you into trouble.\u003Co:p\u003E\u003C\/o:p\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cbr\u003E\u003Cspan class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Times, \u0026#39;Times New Roman\u0026#39;, serif;\"\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003Cbr\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/psych-your-mind.blogspot.com\/2014\/05\/the-top-ten-worst-reasons-to-stay.html#more\"\u003ERead More-\u0026gt;\u003C\/a\u003E"},"link":[{"rel":"replies","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/psych-your-mind.blogspot.com\/feeds\/1022574715757021895\/comments\/default","title":"Post Comments"},{"rel":"replies","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/psych-your-mind.blogspot.com\/2014\/05\/the-top-ten-worst-reasons-to-stay.html#comment-form","title":"0 Comments"},{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6451967208270832502\/posts\/default\/1022574715757021895"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6451967208270832502\/posts\/default\/1022574715757021895"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/psych-your-mind.blogspot.com\/2014\/05\/the-top-ten-worst-reasons-to-stay.html","title":"The Top Ten Worst Reasons to Stay Friends With Your Ex"}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Juli"},"uri":{"$t":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/11680528427434926352"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"media$thumbnail":{"xmlns$media":"http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/","url":"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/-tc6tXT0G6hs\/U4D99Tqt12I\/AAAAAAAABMU\/CpMwnPE2_hs\/s72-c\/movie-review-photo-_-the-break-up-screen-savor.jpg","height":"72","width":"72"},"thr$total":{"$t":"0"}},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451967208270832502.post-6490361603034144630"},"published":{"$t":"2014-04-07T21:07:00.000-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2014-04-07T21:14:10.066-07:00"},"category":[{"scheme":"http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#","term":"Cutting-Edge Research"},{"scheme":"http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#","term":"Emotion"},{"scheme":"http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#","term":"Gender"},{"scheme":"http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#","term":"Health\/Happiness"},{"scheme":"http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#","term":"Juli"},{"scheme":"http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#","term":"Romantic Relationships"},{"scheme":"http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#","term":"Social perception"},{"scheme":"http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#","term":"Well-Being"}],"title":{"type":"text","$t":"4 Reasons Not to Settle in a Relationship"},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"\u003C!--[if gte mso 9]\u003E\u003Cxml\u003E \u003Co:DocumentProperties\u003E  \u003Co:Template\u003ENormal\u003C\/o:Template\u003E  \u003Co:Revision\u003E0\u003C\/o:Revision\u003E  \u003Co:TotalTime\u003E0\u003C\/o:TotalTime\u003E  \u003Co:Pages\u003E1\u003C\/o:Pages\u003E  \u003Co:Words\u003E1588\u003C\/o:Words\u003E  \u003Co:Characters\u003E9055\u003C\/o:Characters\u003E  \u003Co:Lines\u003E75\u003C\/o:Lines\u003E  \u003Co:Paragraphs\u003E18\u003C\/o:Paragraphs\u003E  \u003Co:CharactersWithSpaces\u003E11120\u003C\/o:CharactersWithSpaces\u003E  \u003Co:Version\u003E11.1539\u003C\/o:Version\u003E \u003C\/o:DocumentProperties\u003E \u003Co:OfficeDocumentSettings\u003E  \u003Co:AllowPNG\/\u003E \u003C\/o:OfficeDocumentSettings\u003E\u003C\/xml\u003E\u003C![endif]--\u003E\u003C!--[if gte mso 9]\u003E\u003Cxml\u003E \u003Cw:WordDocument\u003E  \u003Cw:Zoom\u003E0\u003C\/w:Zoom\u003E  \u003Cw:DoNotShowRevisions\/\u003E  \u003Cw:DoNotPrintRevisions\/\u003E  \u003Cw:DisplayHorizontalDrawingGridEvery\u003E0\u003C\/w:DisplayHorizontalDrawingGridEvery\u003E  \u003Cw:DisplayVerticalDrawingGridEvery\u003E0\u003C\/w:DisplayVerticalDrawingGridEvery\u003E  \u003Cw:UseMarginsForDrawingGridOrigin\/\u003E \u003C\/w:WordDocument\u003E\u003C\/xml\u003E\u003C![endif]--\u003E    \u003C!--StartFragment--\u003E \u003Cbr\u003E\u003Cdiv style=\"text-align: left;\"\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"\u003E\u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/-YmwJEK5oVZI\/U0N0PGRbDiI\/AAAAAAAABI4\/zNdzXl_QPL8\/s1600\/gottlieb.jpg\" imageanchor=\"1\" style=\"clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"\u003E\u003Cimg border=\"0\" src=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/-YmwJEK5oVZI\/U0N0PGRbDiI\/AAAAAAAABI4\/zNdzXl_QPL8\/s1600\/gottlieb.jpg\" height=\"320\" width=\"258\"\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom: 14.0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;\"\u003E\u003Cspan class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Times, \u0026#39;Times New Roman\u0026#39;, serif;\"\u003E\u003Ci\u003ESettling\u003C\/i\u003E is an ugly, depressing word. Few people would suggest outright that you should settle for less than you want and deserve in a relationship. Even Lori Gottlieb, author of \u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/www.barnesandnoble.com\/w\/marry-him-lori-gottlieb\/1102022040?ean=9780525951513\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"color: #262626; text-decoration: none; text-underline: none;\"\u003E\u003Ci\u003EMarry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough\u003C\/i\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E, disapproved of the use of the word in her book title, a decision she said was \u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/www.salon.com\/2014\/02\/20\/marry_him_author_lori_gottlieb_i_don%E2%80%99t_think_anything_i%E2%80%99ve_written_is_controversial\/\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"color: #262626;\"\u003Emade by her publisher\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003Co:p\u003E\u003C\/o:p\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom: 14.0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;\"\u003E\u003Cspan class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Times, \u0026#39;Times New Roman\u0026#39;, serif;\"\u003EBut the pressure to settle can be very real, even if it is not communicated explicitly. People who are single after a certain age may be seen as \u0026quot;too picky\u0026quot; and urged to lower their standards. Singles are also likely to face social stigma due to their solo status, a phenomenon psychologist \u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/experts\/bella-depaulo-phd\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"color: #262626;\"\u003EBella DePaulo\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E has called “singlism.” From our earliest days, we learn that our worth is tied up in our ability to find a mate; that \u003Cspan style=\"color: #262626; text-decoration: none; text-underline: none;\"\u003Emarriage\u003C\/span\u003Emarks the passage into mature adulthood and is our \u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/psycnet.apa.org\/psycinfo\/2005-09295-002\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"color: #262626;\"\u003Emost important adult relationship\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E; and that we are not complete until we find our other half. And then there is the issue of our \u0026quot;biological clocks,\u0026quot; an imperative which recent research suggests \u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/thechart.blogs.cnn.com\/2014\/02\/27\/study-children-of-older-fathers-at-much-higher-risk-of-psychiatric-disorders\/\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"color: #262626;\"\u003Eaffects men too\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003Co:p\u003E\u003C\/o:p\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom: 14.0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;\"\u003E\u003Cspan class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Times, \u0026#39;Times New Roman\u0026#39;, serif;\"\u003EIt\u0026#39;s no wonder that people feel rushed to settle down before they are ready, or before they find the right match.\u003Co:p\u003E\u003C\/o:p\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom: 14.0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;\"\u003E\u003Cspan class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Times, \u0026#39;Times New Roman\u0026#39;, serif;\"\u003EIf you have ever found yourself grappling with the question of whether it\u0026#39;s better to be alone, or to settle—which \u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/magazine\/archive\/2008\/03\/marry-him\/306651\/\"\u003E\u003Cspan style=\"color: #262626;\"\u003EGottlieb calls\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E “one of the most complicated, painful, and pervasive dilemmas many single [people] are forced to grapple with\u0026quot;—read on. Here are four science-backed reasons why you should consider holding out for a relationship that makes you truly happy:\u003Co:p\u003E\u003C\/o:p\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom: 14.0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;\"\u003E\u003Cspan class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Times, \u0026#39;Times New Roman\u0026#39;, serif;\"\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003Ca href=\"http:\/\/psych-your-mind.blogspot.com\/2014\/04\/4-reasons-not-to-settle-in-relationship.html#more\"\u003ERead More-\u0026gt;\u003C\/a\u003E"},"link":[{"rel":"replies","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/psych-your-mind.blogspot.com\/feeds\/6490361603034144630\/comments\/default","title":"Post Comments"},{"rel":"replies","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/psych-your-mind.blogspot.com\/2014\/04\/4-reasons-not-to-settle-in-relationship.html#comment-form","title":"2 Comments"},{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6451967208270832502\/posts\/default\/6490361603034144630"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6451967208270832502\/posts\/default\/6490361603034144630"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/psych-your-mind.blogspot.com\/2014\/04\/4-reasons-not-to-settle-in-relationship.html","title":"4 Reasons Not to Settle in a Relationship"}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Juli"},"uri":{"$t":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/11680528427434926352"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"media$thumbnail":{"xmlns$media":"http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/","url":"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/-YmwJEK5oVZI\/U0N0PGRbDiI\/AAAAAAAABI4\/zNdzXl_QPL8\/s72-c\/gottlieb.jpg","height":"72","width":"72"},"thr$total":{"$t":"2"}}]}});